Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Security/Settling/Scared

Security

As individuals grow older he and she are faced with reality from watching other relationships fail; is having security in one's life much more important than love, lust, and looks. I am now 30 years old, and I know that eventually he will finally move on and decide to be with some other woman. Therefore, I ask myself these questions: should I take a chance to see what can be with him or should I continue to pass on him.

Settling

Every year I always open up and make myself approachable to men; however, our time together never makes it to the point where I wonder if he can be my Mr. Right...the man that I will marry, purchase a home, and start a family. Do you know that old saying...sometimes what you're looking for can be right in front of you the whole time. Is that true; has Mr. Right been right in front of me the whole time. If I take that chance will I be settling?

Scared

When I look at him, I tell myself that I can do better...am I wrong for feeling that way. He has always been there for me: emotionally, physically, and finacially; he is my best friend. However, I'm scared to move forward with a future with him; there is that security on one hand and then again I'll have that feeling that I am settling. Ultimately I don't want to make the wrong decision; I don't want for either one of us to get hurt...what should I do.